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You said it, but do you believe it?

Updated: Jul 13, 2022

You ever heard of the Law of Reciprocity?

Do you prefer to listen to this blog? Here it is! If not, keep reading

It's more of a principle than a law really but to put it simply, the law states that you get back what you put out. Get it, reciprocate? Reciprocity? Makes sense right?

It's actually a fairly popular concept and if I'm being honest every time I think about it, Drake lyrics pop into my head. "It is what it is, trust me you get what you give, BLESSED!"

Ok ok ok, now that I got that out let's talk about it. Do you believe in this law? Most people, well the ones that I know, say that they do but their actions don't match their words.

Tell me this, when you think about your goals and everything that you want to accomplish, do you actually believe that it could be a reality?

Do you plan for it to become a reality?

Sometimes, we really want things to happen for us in our lives. Some examples are finding love and building a family, moving up in or changing career paths, starting a business or a side hustle or even something as simple as building or creating a positive self image.

These things sound simple enough but most people leave them up to chance.

We throw the idea out there once or twice and we say that we'll let God or The Universe sort out the details. Now, I am a firm believer in the Most High, however he told us very plainly that "Faith without works is dead" (James 2:14). We can't just say that we believe something but don't take the necessary next steps to make it a reality.

Which brings me back to the reason we're here. The law of reciprocity states that you get back what you put out but what we forget is that if we want a return, we have to be willing to not just speak something into existence but also put in the work so that when it comes back we're ready to receive it.

Everything always comes back to knowing who you are, what you want and creating a plan for that thing.

If you want more money, make a plan to get more money, legally of course, but also make a plan for the money that you'll receive. Where is it going, what will it be used for, how will you care for it?

If you want a promotion, make a plan to get better in your career. Learn how to communicate your value and maybe take some classes that makes you stronger in areas that are necessary to do that job well.

If you want to find love, become the person that people will fall in love with. There's nothing more attractive than someone who is safe and secure in themselves, mentally in a good place and is emotionally ready. Figure out how to be that person and you'll attract that person.

When I say put out what you want to receive, sometimes that could just be energy, but other times it could be more. Figure out what that thing is for you and live in it 110%. Go out and embody what you want to receive and eventually it will come. Be ready to perform and the audience will clap! Don't be afraid to live the life that you deserve, but you have to believe that it can happen and be able to make a plan for it to happen if you really want it to become a reality.

If you need help figuring out what you want, or making a plan for what you want then you can reach out to me directly

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